Hey buddy,
The harness you have is good!
The 12v 12 gauge wire you wired to the relay will supply power to the ten 18 gauge wires which will supply power to things like fuel pump, fuel injector, relays. The 12v 12 gauge will also supply power to the 18 gauge which supply power for M800. I'm sure motec know how much power M800 will be drawing therefore a 18 gauge to the M800 is sufficient.
If you look at M800 wiring diagram, M800 activate injector, fuel pump and etc by pulling to the ground, meaning the 12v supply to those parts are outside of the M800. What is important is the size of the ground wire. Now, if the way you activate your fuel pump, fan, and other items through individual relay, then you'll see light current going through the ground as well. Plus, there are two ground wire(A10, A11) so... two 18 gauge wires are almost equivalent to one 14 gauge wire(cross section wise).
Anyway... thanks for posting the information though.. you have help answer some of my questions as well!!!